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Barbara Jean Shoemaker Ward, 84, of the Union Grove Community of McMinn County, Tennessee, peacefully entered the presence of her Lord and Savior on Sunday, July 26, 2026.
Though Alzheimer's disease and other health challenges gradually took many of the abilities she once enjoyed, they never diminished the beautiful life she lived, the joy she shared, or the love she so freely gave. Today we rejoice knowing that she has been made completely whole-her mind is clear, her body is restored, and she is forever at peace in the presence of Jesus Christ.
Barbara was born on November 8, 1941, to Clyde and Willie Moss Shoemaker, who preceded her in death. She was also preceded in death by her beloved children, Debbie and Andy and son-in-law, Jeff Bolduc; her parents-in-law, Herman D. and Lela Mae Gragg Ward; special niece, Kimberly Dawn Shoemaker; along with several aunts, uncles, cousins, brothers-in-law, and sisters-in-law, nieces and nephews.
On October 21, 1960, Barbara married the love of her life, Phillip K. Ward. Together they shared 65 years, 9 months, and 5 days of unwavering love and devotion. Their marriage was built on faith, friendship, laughter, and countless adventures. Whether traveling in their RV to golf courses throughout the South, camping with family and friends, or simply enjoying life's quiet moments together, they built a beautiful life that blessed everyone who knew them.
If you knew Barbara, chances are you left her presence smiling, better fed than when you arrived, or simply feeling a little more loved.
She was known throughout the community for her joyful spirit, contagious smile, quick wit, and genuine kindness. She never met a stranger and always had an encouraging word for those around her. Serving others wasn't simply something Barbara did-it was who she was.
To countless families throughout East Tennessee, Barbara was affectionately known as "The Cake Lady." For more than thirty-five years she owned and operated a successful catering and cake decorating business that became part of thousands of life's happiest celebrations. After learning the art of cake decorating from a renowned baker from New York, she mastered her craft, creating breathtaking wedding cakes and elegant receptions that helped make dreams come true for countless brides and grooms. She also created cakes for several well-known individuals throughout the years.
Today, the Cake Lady has gone Home. The hands that lovingly baked, decorated, served, and celebrated so many others now rest in the presence of her Savior, where every joy she helped create on earth is surpassed by the celebration she now knows in Heaven.
Barbara faithfully served the Union Grove Volunteer Fire Department for more than thirty-five years in numerous capacities, including secretary. She was honored as the department's Best Daytime Responder and was never intimidated to climb behind the wheel of a fire truck whenever duty called.
She attended Edmondson Business College in Chattanooga and also served as a Teacher's Aide at Niota School while her children attended there and later worked in the bakery at Newman's Grocery, where her love of baking continued to bless the community.
Outside of work, Barbara embraced life wholeheartedly. In her younger years she loved riding horses, especially her treasured Tennessee Walking Horse, Champ. Family wagon trains through the Tellico Mountains became treasured adventures that she often remembered with joy.
Golf remained one of Barbara's greatest passions throughout her life. She and Phillip loved spending time together on the golf course and traveling in their RV to golf destinations across the South, forming lifelong friendships along the way. Barbara was an accomplished golfer who proudly achieved what every golfer hopes for-a hole-in-one.
Barbara was a member of First Baptist Church of Niota. Even after Alzheimer's had taken much of her memory, one desire remained unchanged-she wanted to go to church. She often asked when it would be time to go, even when her body and mind no longer allowed her to attend. Her love for the Lord and her church family never faded. She held a special affection for her pastor, Cullen Conner, and delighted in blessing him with homemade sausage balls whenever she had the opportunity.
Barbara is survived by her devoted husband, Phillip K. Ward; her daughters, Pam Perdue (Bob) and Vickie Bolduc; her brother, Alvin Shoemaker (Janice); her beloved Aunt Marjorie Ingram; her dear first cousin, Billie Anne Knox; and her cousin by marriage, Sharron Ingram, who Barbara would say about..."I like you."
She also leaves behind her treasured granddaughters, Amber Isbill (Drew), Kaylen Hayes, and Savanna Harrison; her precious great-grandchildren, Paisley Isbill, Chesney Isbill, Charli Anne Hayes, Everett Hayes, and Camden Smith; along with many nieces, nephews, extended family members, cherished friends.
One of the sweetest gifts of Barbara's final months came in the midst of Alzheimer's. Beginning around Christmas, she developed an even deeper appreciation for beauty. She delighted in colorful flowers, birds, clothing, sunsets, and the simple beauty surrounding her each day, often pausing to say, "That's so pretty," or, "Isn't that beautiful?" Those who loved her cannot help but smile as they imagine what she thought when her eyes first opened in Heaven and she beheld beauty beyond anything she had ever seen.
While Alzheimer's may have confined her earthly body, it never confined her spirit. Today she walks freely, thinks clearly, remembers completely, and worships without limitation. The confusion is gone. The pain has ended. Her faith has become sight, and she now rests safely in the arms of the Savior she loved.
The family wishes to express their deepest gratitude to those who lovingly cared for Barbara throughout her journey.
A heartfelt thank you to Debbie Allen, who faithfully sat with Barbara and became much more than a sitter. Your gentle presence, compassion, and friendship brought comfort and laughter and her looking forward to Wednesdays.
To Lori Valentin, thank you for lovingly caring for Barbara's home. During Barbara's final week, as you quietly cleaned, you smiled at her and said, "I'm getting your house clean because Company is coming." You were speaking of Jesus and His angels coming to take her Home. Those words became a beautiful reminder of the hope we have in Christ and will forever remain a treasured memory to our family.
We are deeply grateful to the wonderful Hospice team, especially nurses Patty Davis and Kim White, whose compassionate care and unwavering support carried our family through Barbara's final days.
Our sincere appreciation is also extended to Dr. Laurence James and his exceptional staff for the loving medical care they faithfully provided throughout the years.
And, we thank the pharmacy staff at Walmart in Sweetwater. Barbara simply loved every visit. Whether she needed a prescription or not, no trip to Walmart was complete without stopping by the pharmacy to see her friends. She especially adored Nick and Eddie, whose warm smiles, cheerful conversations, and occasional lollipop always brightened her day. Those simple acts of kindness brought Barbara great joy and created memories our family will always cherish. And for the other staff we thank you for always being concerned and asking how she was doing.
One of the unexpected joys of Barbara's later year was discovering her love for Mexican food. It became one of her favorite outings, much to Phillip's amusement. He often laughed and said, "If someone had told me years ago that Barbara's favorite food would someday be Mexican, I'd have told you they were crazy!" Yet that's exactly what happened. El Jinete Mexican Restaurant in Athens became one of her happiest places. She looked forward not only to the meal but to seeing the wonderful staff who always greeted her so warmly. No matter how busy they were, they always seemed to make time to stop by her table, share a smile, and make her feel special. It would always bring a happy expression to her face when you would say..."Hey mom, how about we go get some tacos?"
Though our hearts ache because we will miss her deeply, they are also filled with gratitude for the remarkable woman God allowed us to love. Barbara's legacy is found not only in the cakes she baked, the fires she answered, the golf games she played, or the meals she prepared. It lives on in the countless people she encouraged, the friendships she nurtured, the family she treasured, and the quiet acts of love and service that became the hallmark of her life.
She was, and always will be, deeply loved.
"Well done, good and faithful servant." Matthew 25:23
A Celebration of Life Service will be held on Sunday. August 2, 2026 at 3:00 pm at First Baptist Church of Niota with Pastor Cullen Conner officiating the service. A Visitation will be held prior from 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm. After the service, the family would like to invite you to meet with them for a meal at Barbara's favorite restaurant, El Jinete Mexican Restaurant in Athens.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to First Baptist Church of Niota in Barbara's memory.
You are invited to share a personal memory of Barbara or your condolences with her family at her online memorial located at www.companionfunerals.com. Companion Funeral Home of Athens and the Cody family are honored to assist the family with these arrangements.
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